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Two brothers and a son
In this painting I have depicted my brothers and son in the form of the male Blue Wren. This is because the Blue Wren is our Grandfather’s totem. I have included the Goanna, echidna, butterfly, snake and tortoise due to the dreaming signs and what they stand for. My mother and grandmother are represented through the butterflies, due to their courage of survival and their journey through their own lives.
They reflect an intricate entanglement within the lives of my son, my brothers and myself. This painting represents the strength and vulnerability of my family web and how, despite the final choice my son and brothers made, there is so much more to their story. The echidna represents the fun and laughter we shared together throughout their lifetime. The snake represents the growth that I had to make with adjusting to life without the presence of their physical beings.
The Goanna gave me my spiritual guidance to enable my beliefs to gain strength. The tortoise showed me how to protect myself at my most venerable times. I have chosen the colours that flow through me in remembrance of my loved ones and the joy of the memories at that time. I paint my world with hope and love.
Artist: Bea Edwards
From: Bringing to life the experiences, skills and knowledges of the bereaved following suicide – Dulwich Centre Foundation